One of the perks of having really short hair, is that you can generally go with out combing your hair and generally avoid any comments…
Those days are gone.
I left the house over the weekend with freshly washed but completely uncombed hair…
One of my aunties, asked me what I was doing wihth my hair in shock, a man laughed at my hair in the super market…
the problem, is I don’t particularly like to comb my hair….
but alas, it seems I must…
I won’t assault you with a photo of what my hair looks like uncombed..
instead here is a photo of a hair style that I aspire to… which is obviously not me… or mine.
Off to buy a comb.
I’m growing my hair out…
Well I think I am, maybe?
I’ve been saying that for the past year and it hasn’t happened yet..
I’m determined now though.. mostly because … someone shaded me and said they didn’t think I could do it… #teambaddecisions
This is what my hair looks like as of today…
maybe I’ll journal this journey…
Maybe I’ll make it..
Maybe I’ll loc it…
Maybe you’ll join me
Its all pretty much up in the air…
Here’s to the New Year, Resolutions and Hair….
I had a conversation a couple years ago (?) with a fellow beauty enthusiast (big up yuhself Jodi) who bemoaned her new found love for higher end skincare and makeup. I sympathise. Everytime I fall in love with a department store brand I can literally see my pocket getting smaller because then I want it all. I’m looking at you Black UP.
Because I am a beauty enthusiast (and beauty hoarder in therapy) I have tried almost all beauty items in both supermarket/ drugstore brands as well as in higher end versions.
More often than not where I feel as if must have high performance, I find the more pricey products that have been the better performers for me. For me the means for my oily skin to look its best, my liquid foundation, serums, treatments,eyeshadows, masks are the areas where I feel I must shell out my money. When I test these items in drugstore/ supermarket brands, high end brands come out on top each and every single time.
Maybe this isn’t the case with everyone, but i’m guessing if you have oily skin problematic skin like I do, that you might find your self a little less than satisfied with drugstore products in those areas as well.
In contrast there are definitely items from the drugstore that I quite love as well. In general, I find drugstore lipsticks, moisturizers and cleansers (for example ) to be good places to save a few dollars. Occasionally I may splurge in these categories but by and large, I’m ok with the performance of cheaper alternatives.
Of course I always live in hope that I will discover more budget friendly alternatives than higher priced.. but until then I splurge where I can and cut and contrive where I can
What parts of your beauty regimen, must be high end and which parts are you ok with cutting back on?
Aren’t you tired of me making promises about when I will update the blog?
Me too! unfortunately although I still have a certain love for blogging, I haven’t been able to keep up a consistent schedule for all types of reasons.
I appreciate those of you who do read and comment (hint) and I understand if my lack of updates and consistency is a pain.
See you next post 🙂
It’s been a minute since i’ve recorded a video. I’m still trying to get the hangof filming and editing and the whole shabang.
But here I am telling you about my favourite beauty products of the moment.
See you next post.!
I live in the island of Barbados. In fact, my blog name is directly from the colloquial name for residents of my country. I am a Bajan. I am a black Bajan.
According to wikipedia, we are a country made up of 93% Black people. Which means that the makeup wearers here come in all colours of the dark skinned spectrum.
So why would it be difficult for Black women beyond medium dark to find foundation matches here on this primarily black island?
If anything I would think being an almost 100% black country darker skinned black women should find it easier to find foundations.
Not only do many makeup manufacturers not produce foundations beyond the medium dark range (think caramel/ nc50) in many of their formulation (Loreal Infallible Pro -matte for example), but even when they do some of our major retailers do not ever stock the full spectrum of the shades!
Wait ? What?
One would think that in a 93% black country that stocking all of the dark skinned shades available in a range would be priority! but that doesn’t appear to be the case.
I’m speaking of brands that I know carry shades from the palest to the darkest in other countries. Brands like Lancome which featured Lupita Nyongo as their spokesperson for the Teint Idole range of foundations.
Lancome Teint Idole is carried in Barbados, we have many women who have similarly deep skin, but they wouldn’t be able to find their shade match here in Barbados.
A foundation formula famed for its extensive range – Estee Lauder Double wear, again in Barbados the retailers don’t carry the full range!
Maybe I’m missing a step? I’m certainly not a retailer, but not catering to the majority population seems like the strangest business decision I have ever come across!
In the mean time if you are a darker skinned black woman, here are some foundations that my Facebook friends swear by.
MAC All Formulations
Bare Minerals – (Not available in store in Barbados)
Makeup Forever HD – (Not available in store in Barbados)
L’oreal True Match
Maybelline Dream Mousse
Maybelline Matte and Poreless
Graftobian – Found In Exotica Makeup
Black Up Foundation (all formulations)
Black Opal Foundations (all formulations)
Are you dark skinned makeup wearer? What’s your go to foundation?
If you’re in Barbados or anywhere else in the world with a similar dilemma, please feel free to weigh in below.
Why don’t retailers carry the full range?
Feel free to educate me in the comments below.
Until next post.
I haven’t reviewed a Black Opal product in a minute! Which seems kind of wrong considering its pretty much a go to drug store staple for black women. There are very few drugstore foundations that have the colour range for black women that Black Opal does.
The last item I reviewed from Black Opal was the Black Opal Stick Foundation here.
The foundation can be found for under 29 BBD (15 USD) across the island which in the scheme of foundation prices puts them right on par with other drugstore foundations such as Maybelline and Loreal. The big difference is that only one formulation of Loreal has a foundation colour range to match dark skin women comparable to the Black Opal.
Black Opal promises that this foundation ‘
Helps minimize the appearance of pores, gives a matte finish , and is light to medium coverage. It is also oil, fragrance and paraben free’
The foundation applies easily to well prepped skin (moisturizer and primer). I use a half a pump of the Truly Topaz colour on the inside of my face (which is lighter and yellower) and then a little less than half a pump on the perimeter of my face (which is more red brown).
When applied to my skin I find it gave me a semi matte finish and an almost weightless feel. Because I am an oily girl, powdering is non negotiable, so I very lightly dusted with Black Opals loose finishing powder.
Because I use two foundation colours on my face (plus a little highlighter on the nose and forehead) isn’t that totally matte flat. However matte foundations do give you that very flat look and this foundation is no exception.
I do have some post acne hyper pigmentation (dark spots) on my cheeks and on my chin but all of that was covered relatively easy by just dabbing a second layer on the offending spots. However I wouldn’t suggest trying to build this foundation too much beyond two layers as it starts to crease in the lines of your face after about 4 hours and the foundation start to ‘crack’ there. I actually had a similar issue with the Stick Foundation as well. To be fair most foundations settle in my smile lines.
Around lunch time (about 4 hours later ) my forehead and nose were definitely oily and not ‘highlighted’ but the coverage on the face remained intact, with the addition of my smile line creases. Around the 6 hour mark, my entire face was definitely more than a little dewy, and heading towards fried fish cake grease zone and I needed to blot!. The coverage had also started to break down just a bit. I began to see my hyper pigmentation peaking through the foundation.
In the scheme of things that is actually pretty decent performance for a foundation on oily skin, and I expect that it will perform even better when the days get a little less hot that the surface of the sun and we head into the ‘winter’ months.
Would I recommend?
Yes. Widely available, apply very lightly around any skin wrinkles. and great price point.
P.S. I love to mix my foundations with a highlighter. I mixed this foundation with MAC’s lustre drops and I got that lit from with in look, just full on glow!. Shoot.. A guy even said I looked angelic. Check it out. Admittedly this does slightly reduce the wear time of this foundation. However, I think it’s worth it.
P.S.S the lip gloss in both looks is one of my favourite nudes. MAC Lipglass in Love child.
What is the item in your makeup stash that you NEVER hear anyone talking about?
In the age of blogs and youtube and social media hype, it seems as if there are only a select few brands that hit the heights of supreme hype. Whenever you discuss makeup with average users, enthusiasts and professionals alike iits always the same 3-4 products at any one time that everyone is in love with.
Oddly enough, although Black Up complexion products (check out some reviews here and here ) have been getting a reasonable amount of hype, (especially with their addition to select Sephora’s in the United States) I hardly hear anyone speaking about their colour products.
Which is why when I bought my first 5 shadow palette from Black UP I wasn’t expecting to be wowed!
But I was!
The first thing I was impressed with is how well thought out the palettes appeared to be! Each palette has a combination of mattes, metallics and shimmers. Which means you have enough in any one palette to give you a decent day time (minimal shimmer) to an all out night time look. Super convenient for the average user who wants to cover most of the bases with one palette.
The second thing and the best thing that I love about these palettes. The mattes in these palettes are smooth, blendable, not ashy and not dusty! That’s actually pretty rare for most matte eyeshadows, which have a tendency to be chalky on brown skin tones and very dusty.
The shimmers in the palette do give some fall out, but they’re pretty enough, and blend so well that I’m willing to forgive that single transgression.
Black up includes the typical sponge tipped applicator in the palettes for use. I’ll be honest and say that I never use those things, as I much prefer using my makeup brushes, but they can be pressed into use if absolutely necessary.
The packaging is Black Up’s typical sleek black plastic packaging, lightweight and easy to handle,
Black up is a department store/high end brand so the price isn’t the cheapest at around 48USD online. but since they have turned into my go to easy to use palettes, I dare say they are worth the price.
I currently own two and despite the fact that I have so much other makeup, I’m pretty sure I’m going to find a way to make sure I own all of them. No rush though, since these are part of the permanent line from Black UP.
What is your most under rated/ least talked about item in your makeup stash?
Hit me in the comments and let me know
Until next time,
As much as I love to try out new makeup products there is at least one makeup trend that has passed me by like a full bus.
For whatever reason I just haven’t been able to get into liquid lipsticks. These super matte long-lasting liquid lipstick formulas are everywhere on the market now. From the high-end to the low-end… Anastasia Beverley hills, LA Colour, Dose of Colour, Lime Crime.. like Lil Rick says you can’t call allllll!
but I’m just over here like ‘Yawn’
Maybe because most of these brands aren’t easily accessible to me? ( I think LA colour is currently being sold in beauty supplies here in Barbados). Other wise, Dose of Colours, Anastasia Beverley Hills, Kat Von D, Lime Crime etc are mainly accessible online and not in any of our store fronts which makes things a little more inconvenient for me.
Maybe because I’m super happy with the traditional matte lipsticks that are available to me?
I love MAC’s matte and retro matte formula and I enjoy the drugstore Wet n Wild MegaLast formula (see comparison review here) , Black UP’s matte formula is also fantastic, and NYX’s matte lip creams aren’t too shabby either (see review here).
What ever it is, I haven’t felt the need to draw for my wallet for any of the liquid lipstick formulas.
So while we’re here tell me in the comments below, are you into the liquid lipstick trend ? am I missing out? School me! Where is the best place to get these brands in Barbados? What are your favorite colours?
Also are there any trends that you aren’t interested in getting into ?
Until next time.
See you next post.
PS. if you are a reader outside of Barbados, phrases in bold represent Barbadian phrases,
Your diet is no one else’s business
You are dieting to reach your own goals. Some people may agree or disagree. But it isn’t their business and it doesn’t give them the right to your inner most thoughts on why you are dieting. It definitely doesn’t give them a right to tell you how to do so or if to do so.
When you make your decision to diet consider keeping it to your self until you are firmly on course.
I’m a firm believer in owning your decisions. Sometimes input from others, though well-meaning may shake your decision process. Make your decision. Set your course, and feel absolutely free to keep it to your self until the right time.
Your diet is no one else’s responsibility but your own.
Don’t go to other people’s special events expecting to be treated uniquely because you are on a diet. Go and enjoy yourself, and prepare your self accordingly or don’t go but send your well wishes along.
Rely on a support system
After all of this emphasis on you owning your decision it seems kind of strange that I would add this. But it’s true. you’re going to need some one you can whine too, some one who is willing to listen, offer helpful suggestions to keep you on track and someone who won’t actively or otherwise attempt to deter you from your goal. Those persons very likely already exist in your circles. Identify them.
Prepare, meal prep, prepare to fail and prepare some more
Preparation is a massive part of dieting success. Preparation will mean different things to different people though.
I chose to prepare my meals weekly aka #mealprep.
Every Sunday I packed my fridge with seven days of meals, 6 meals a day.
As I got more comfortable and understood food better, I only prepped for 5 days of the week. and sometimes for any weekend days that I would be on the road.
The days when I didn’t have meal prepared, I always had easy to cook lean protein on hand and a ton of green vegetables. It had to be easy though, if it wasn’t easy and fast to cook I was asking for trouble.
One thing I came to accept is that no one day on a diet would be the same as it relates to my hunger or appetite. So as I proceeded, I started to plan to fail. My go to plan to fail meal changed over the duration of the prep, but it was almost always a green vegetable. The only exception was tomatoes, which was close enough for me.
When I felt like I needed absolutely needed an extra meal I would pull out my tomatoes/ cucumber/ celery and get going. There was one particularly epic day where I counted that I had eaten almost 2 pounds of cucumber.
Another lesson I learnt as I proceeded was, having some extra meals in the fridge even when you don’t think you need them, will save you more times than you might ever imagine.
Portion size and counting calories will teach you very quickly what food is worth your time.
A friend of mine recommended a calorie counting application to me ( big up yuh self Leslie!) and it really is worth it to count calories and look at what foods are ‘worth it’.
Everyone has their preferences, but when I realized that 4 oz of sweet potato was not even equivalent in calorie count to approximately a half cup of quinoa, I was too through with quinoa! A half cup of quinoa doesn’t even scratch my navel much less fill my stomach. I was all about that sweet potato life, more filling and fewer calories.
This of course might be the reverse for other people. Also.. sodas, soft drinks, juices etc.. are rarely worth it for me..neither is alcohol.
Every day my calorie counting application showed me where I was getting the most bang for my buck! Information in calorie counting apps are for the most part submitted by its own users, so go ahead and cross reference the numbers before confirming the food nutrition.
The one I used is myfitnesspal.
My diet plan failed today. Boo hoo.. suck it up buttercup… and move on get back to building your habit
So one day of your diet went badly. Trust me when I tell you that for the most part one day or one meal of ‘failing’ at your diet will not completely put your other 6 days of the week of good habits into the crapper.
Shoot… not even two days.Ask me how I know? GO ahead ask me!
(do not ask me if your name is Lana! Sorry Boo!)
Your habits, what you do most often, are what will determine the success of a diet. not any random off days. Think about that. Think about it again. Re read the section on preparation. and build your habit!
Sometimes it’s okay to plan to give in to the craving and count it
You’ve stuck to the plan, but you still want those Cheetos though! So have them. Buy one single serving bag of Cheetos from the corner store and have them, and read the nutrition label.
Some days I would read the nutrition label on snacks and just decide.. nah! this really isn’t worth it today. Other days I would read the label, and I would have me some Cheetos!
Just in case you were wondering 4 oz of sweet potato and a bag of Cheetos are comparable in calories.
The diet I was on was a relatively extreme diet which was oriented towards a very specific goal for stage, but the lessons I learnt have left an indelible mark. and these weren’t even all of the lessons. I definitely look forward to sharing more with you over time.
Until next post.
P.S. sweet potato is life! and also.. cake. 🙂